I Called Him Necktie

I Called Him Necktie by Milena Michiko Flašar, published by New Vessel Press in 2014, is a poignant exploration of human connection and personal growth. This 128-page novel follows twenty-year-old Taguchi Hiro, who has spent two years as a hikikomori, isolated in his parents’ Tokyo home. As he begins to venture out, Hiro observes life from a park bench and forms a friendship with Ohara Tetsu, a middle-aged salaryman grappling with his own struggles. Their tentative bond reveals shared regrets and aspirations, ultimately leading them toward a new beginning.
Readers will find a narrative that delves into themes of family and relationships, friendship, and the challenges of coming of age in a modern urban environment. The story unfolds against the backdrop of city life in Japan, capturing the essence of isolation and the journey toward reconnection. Through Hiro and Tetsu’s interactions, the novel presents a thoughtful meditation on freedom and responsibility, inviting reflection on the complexities of life and the small triumphs that can emerge from vulnerability.
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“The best of the best from this year’s bountiful harvest of uncommonly strong offerings … Deeply original.” —O, The Oprah Magazine
“Milena Michiko Flasar’s beautiful novel … is a story about freedom and responsibility, and it results in an almost Sartrean meditation.”–Times Literary Supplement
“Flasar’s exquisite, finely wrought novel is both a prose poem and a parable about how we deflect, defer and disconnect from life, and what is needed before we can bravely embrace it again.”
— Monique Truong, author of The Book of Salt and Bitter in the Mouth
Twenty-year-old Taguchi Hiro has spent the last two years of his life living as a hikikomori–a shut-in who never leaves his room and has no human interaction–in his parents’ home in Tokyo. As Hiro tentatively decides to reenter the world, he spends his days observing life around him from a park bench. Gradually he makes friends with Ohara Tetsu, a middle-aged salaryman who has lost his job but can’t bring himself to tell his wife, and shows up every day in a suit and tie to pass the time on a nearby bench. As Hiro and Tetsu cautiously open up to each other, they discover in their sadness a common bond. Regrets and disappointments, as well as hopes and dreams, come to the surface until both find the strength to somehow give a new start to their lives. This beautiful novel is moving, unforgettable, and full of surprises. The reader turns the last page feeling that a small triumph has occurred.
Milena Michiko Flasar was born in 1980, the daughter of a Japanese mother and an Austrian father. She lives in Vienna. I Called Him Necktie won the 2012 Austrian Alpha Literature Prize.
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