Growing Yourself Back Up Understanding Emotional Regression

Growing Yourself Back Up: Understanding Emotional Regression by John Lee, published by Harmony/Rodale/Convergent on January 23, 2001, is a self-help book that explores the concept of emotional regression. In this 240-page edition, Lee identifies the triggers that lead to feelings of rage, fear, and helplessness, connecting these emotions to childhood experiences. He provides insights into how adults can recognize and manage these feelings, emphasizing that no adult needs to feel the helplessness often associated with childhood.
Readers will find practical strategies and visualization exercises designed to help them develop emotional boundaries and prevent regression in themselves and others. The book includes methods such as the Detour Method, which aims to reverse regression, and offers guidance on effective communication with authority figures. By addressing interpersonal relations and personal growth, Growing Yourself Back Up serves as a resource for those looking to understand and navigate their emotional responses more effectively.
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Someone pushes your buttons. You feel rage, fear, sweaty palms, unbidden tears—you feel like a kid.
We’ve all experienced moments when we lose control of a situation and ourselves. Now, in Growing Yourself Back Up, the first book to explain the idea of emotional regression to the general reader, bestselling author John Lee identifies the circumstances that cause these seemingly uncontrollable feelings and shows how they are directly tied to our experience as children.
No adult, explains Lee, need ever experience the helpless feelings of childhood again. Here are his proven methods and visualization exercises, developed in his popular workshops, for recognizing, preventing, and diffusing regression in ourselves and others. He teaches, for example, that adults cannot be abandoned, they can only be left; if we’re feeling abandoned we’re regressing. He also reminds us that no matter how overwhelmed we are, adults always have options; if we believe we don’t, we’re in a regression.
Growing Yourself Back Up will show you how to:
* develop strong emotional boundaries and convey them to others
* learn the Detour Method that reverses regression
* confront without regressing
* communicate with the authority figures who push your buttons
* minimize regression at family functions
Lee offers hope—as well as practical strategies that work—for conquering those childlike feelings of powerlessness that are almost always rooted in regression.
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